Benjamin Buchtel is the son of Solomon and Maria Margaretha Reber Buchtel, born in 1806 near Rebersburg, Centre County, Ohio. He died in 1872 in Whitley County, Ohio. Although it's possible that he had an earlier wife, no record of an early marriage has been found. He was 38 years old when he married Barbara Burkholder Long, a young widow who had also lost her only child by that marriage. Barbara is the daughter of Joseph and Elizabeth Miller Burkholder.
We don't know what their early marriage was like, but by about 1870 it was miserable, at least for Barbara. She divorced him on grounds of cruelty and non-support, and had several witnesses willing to describe the physical abuse she had undergone. Benjamin was a heavy drinker and probably an alcoholic by this time, but we don't know how long this had been true. Benjamin and Barbara had several children together, and apparently also raised Joseph, who was not Benjamin's child but was Barbara's. So let's start with Joseph.
Joseph was born in 1844, but we don't know if it was before or after Benjamin and Barbara married. His father was John Hively, and although he is listed as a "Booken" in the 1850 census in Portage County, Ohio, he seems to have always known who his father was. His obituary doesn't mention his father's name but does mention his surviving half siblings. Joseph married Sophia Tannehill, the daughter of William and Mary Smalley Tannehill. Their children are Mary, Ann, Charles, and Sarah. Joseph died in 1913 in Whitley County, Indiana, and his obituary indicates he had come to the county as a boy of 14.
Elizabeth, known as Betsey, was born in 1846, based on the census. It could have been a year earlier, or later. I have not located her after the 1870 census so I'm not sure what happened. Did she marry, or leave the area, or was she deceased? Perhaps someone reading this will know, and will be willing to share their information with us. (It is possible that she married an Oscar Palmer, but if so, it is not the Oscar Palmer of Whitley County who was married to Sarah.)
Fannie was born in 1850. She married Adam Kemery, the son of Daniel and Susanna Essig Kemery. They had at least six children together, although the first child wasn't born until nearly 5 years after their marriage and there are gaps between children, so it's possible that there were more who did not survive. Their known children are Pheba, Harvey, Benjamin, Della, Cora, and Earl. Fannie (sometimes seen as Nancy) died in 1925 in Whitley County, Indiana.
Susannah was born in 1851 and died in 1938 in Branch County, Michigan. She married William Vampner (Wampner and various other spellings), the son of Henry and Wilhelmina Budde Wampner. Thier children are Joseph, Ida, Ada, Erly, Elizabeth, John, Woodie, Goldie, Oscar, and Arthur.
Margaret was born in 1853 and died in 1928 in Whitley County, Indiana. She married Alexander Kemery, also (see above) the son of Daniel and Susanna Essig Kemery. Their children are Barbara, Elizabeth, Anna, Lora, Nellie, John, Bertha, and Vica.
Solomon was born in 1856 and died in 1928 in Whitley County, Indiana. He married "Emma", who was possibly Sarah Emeline, Knapp, the daughter of Oscar Knapp. I've not yet identified her mother. Their known children are Jessie, Benjamin, Samantha, Eldora, Edward, and Zula.
Thomas was born in 1860 but I've found no further record of him. The Buchtel name is frequently mangled in records so it's possible that I've just not found the spelling used in later records, but it's also possible that he died before the 1870 census.
The last born child, Eva or Evie, was born in 1864. She was blind and may or may not have had other physical handicaps. I've not found record of her after 1880.
As mentioned, Benjamin died in 1872 but Barbara's story is not quite finished. She married Daniel Kemery-yes, the same Daniel Kemery who was the father of Adam and Alexander Kemery, two of her sons-in law. So she now became the stepmother of her sons in law, and grandmother and step grandmother to their children. I've not found a definite death date for Barbara but it was sometime between 1877 and 1879, when land was being transferred and she is listed as being deceased.
Just for fun, I looked at the 1950 census for Whitley County, where these offspring of Benjamin and Barbara lived. I found no Buchtels, but I did find a lot of Kemery names. It appears that in 2025, there are still Kemery families living in Whitley County.