Joseph Rockwood, the son of John and Deborah Thayer Rockwood, was born in Mendon, Worcester County, Massachusetts in 1722. He married Alice Thomson (Thompson), the daughter of Joseph and Mary Holbrook Thomson in 1750 in Bellingham, Norfolk County, Massachusetts. We have already seen Holbrook names mentioned in connection with the Rockwoods and there are more connections to come. Mendon and Bellingham, where many of the children lived, were small towns and families frequently intermarried. To re-set the stage, Mary Holbrook Thomson was a daughter of Peter and Alice Godfrey Holbrook. Joseph died in 1778, just a month after his father's death.
Joseph and Alice (seen often as Elce) had at least eight children. The eight survived childhood, but four of them died when they were in their twenties or thirties, so there are not as many grandchildren for this couple as one would think. So while there was great joy in watching the children grow, their would later be the sorrow for the empty homes in the village and in their own hearts.
The first born child was Levi, born in 1751 and died in 1806, both in Bellingham. He married Deborah Lazell, the daughter of Isaac and Deborah Marsh Lazell. Their children include Rachel, Susannah, Hannah, Joseph, Levi, Nathan, Martin and Reuben. I will write more of this family in my next post.
Deborah was born next, in 1754. She married Silvanus Batte or Battey, the son of Nicholas and Hannah Davis Battey. Their children are Robert, Amasa, and Amos. Deborah died in 1779, already a widow at the age of just 25. I haven't further traced the children, but perhaps Alice, or one of the surviving aunts and uncles, was able to help raise them.
John was born in 1756 and died in 1786. He married Eunice Smith, the daughter of Matthew and Sarah Adams Smith. Their children are John and Cephas. The sad story of John and his brother Cephas (below) is that they for some reason were on a ship returning from Damariscotta, Maine, when their ship overturned near Lovell's Island, in Boston Harbor. The returning passengers struggled to shore on the island but this was in December, in the middle of a blizzard, and 11 of the thirteen passengers, including our two Rockwoods, froze to death in their wet clothing, with no shelter available.
Alice was born in 1758 and died in 1842 in Bellingham. She married John Cook, the son of Daniel and Elizabeth Scott Cook. That is the full extent of what I've found for her. If she stayed her entire life in Bellingham, there are no children recorded there. It's possible that she and John had left the area and that she came home to Bellingham after living elsewhere, but I've not found anything to reflect that. There is a 1790 census in Maine that might possibly be this John Cook, which does indicate the possibility of children.
Joseph was born in 1760 and died on October 6, 1778, just four days before his grandfather John and 35 days before his father Joseph. As mentioned in my last post, it seems possible that there was an epidemic of some sort in town, whether smallpox or something else, but I've not found anything further about that. At any rate, Alice lost her son, husband, and father in law in very short order, and then the following year her daughter. She must have been, or become, a very strong woman!
Melatiah was born in 1762 and died in 1848 or 1849 in Bellingham. Her first marriage was to Asa Holbrook, the son of Asahel and Anna Puffer Holbrook. Yes, Asa was a descendant of Peter and Alice Godfrey Holbrook, so there was a cousin relationship here, although not a first cousin. Their children are Deborah, Sylvanus, Cephas, and Anna. After Asa died, she married Caleb Adams, who may or may not be the son of Moses and Abigail Stone Adams. Their children are Abigail, Caleb, Melatiah, and Alice. I have not yet found a relationship between Caleb Adams and Sarah Adams Smith, but there may be one.
Cephas I have mentioned above, as being one of those who froze to death on Lovell's Island. He was born in 1766 and was not yet 21 years old at the time of this death.
The final child was Daniel, born in 1768. He seems to be the only one who left Bellingham, settling first on Oswego, New York, and dying in 1853 in Chicago, Cook County, Illinois. He married Lovica (various spellings) Pond, the daughter of Eliezer and Huldah Hill Pond. Their children are John, Daniel, Samuel, Alice, Marinda, and Lovice. It is interesting to speculate why Daniel went to Chicago. Our ancestor Joseph Holbrook was already there. Did he go to visit, or had he gone there to start a new life after Lovica's 1843 death? He was pretty old to be starting over. Daniel Rockwood, who may be the son of our Daniel, was living in Vermilion, Livingston County, Illinois in the 1850 census.
As usual, there are still questions to clear up with this family, particularly about Alice Rockwood Cook. Did she or did she not have children? Did she live in Maine for part of her life? More research needs to be done, but at least we have this much information. Joseph and Alice, despite their sorrows, raised their family, and at least one, Levi, was a veteran of the Revolutionary War. We can be grateful for their sacrifices.